How to Ask a Girl Out On a Date the Right Way

There is a right and wrong way to ask a girl out on date. Done correctly, you can easily land a date. But if you phrase it badly, you’ll seem weak and low status.

That’s why it’s important to know HOW to ask a girl out. Then make sure you do this every time you meet a woman. But before we get to that, let’s review the WRONG way to phrase your date request.

The Wrong Way to Ask a Out a Girl

The worst way to ask a woman on a date is to be unclear about your plans. This is where you conclude the conversation with a weak statement that doesn’t build interest OR excitement. For instance, a wrong way to request a date would sound like this:

I enjoyed talking to you. Would you like to go out sometime?

The reason this doesn't work is it does nothing to make her interested about going on a date. If you want to her to go out with you, then the date itself should sound intriguing.

Furthermore, when you give an ambiguous date request you do nothing to indicate your high status. As you probably know, women want a guy who is confident and takes initiative. When you’re unclear about your date request, you’ll demonstrate low self esteem.

Now let’s move on to a correct way to ask for a date…

The Right Way to Ask a Out a Girl

When you ask a woman out there should indicator of exactly what’s going to happen. This can include the day/time, place and the activity.

In addition, the date request should be an extension of your lifestyle. Instead of presenting her with a formal date request, you’re casually inviting her into an exciting part of YOUR world.

So a great way to ask a girl out would to talk about your exciting life and the things you enjoy. Then as the initial conversation comes to a conclusion, you see if she wants to join with an activity that you enjoy. For instance, you can ask a girl out like this:

Hey, you mentioned you like live music. A group of us are checking out that ____ band at ____ on ____. It should be an awesome time. You should tag along! Here let me get your number!

This is an excellent way to ask a girl on a date because it gives ALL the necessary information without seeming too needy. Also, if you state this with a high level of energy and status, she’ll naturally feel excited about joining you.

If you follow my advice after building attraction, rapport and comfort, you should EASILY conclude the conversation with a phone number and date plan.

via Underground Attraction and Dating Tips for Men.